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S ome of us can easily describe ourselves as gay, straight or bisexual, but other people find these static labels inadequate. A recent YouGov survey found that almost half of young people aged between 18 and 24 in the UK do not consider themselves exclusively gay or straight.

Zero represents exclusively heterosexual, three equally heterosexual and homosexual, and six exclusively homosexual. We asked people to tell us about their sexual preferences, history, behaviour, thoughts and beliefs, and then asked them to plot themselves on the Kinseyscale. I have lots of homosexual friends and have experienced flirtations and attraction to the same gender.

But when it comes to sexual desire, I have no doubts Aroused gay dudes are making erotic love I prefer. I started to think about sex when I was about nine years old. I think it is a question of understanding your own nature, by thinking and testing, and then just be courageous to be who you are. You certainly never know what may happen when you meet exceptional people. Freedom to choose is the most important ingredient to reach a healthy society.

The imposition of certain behavioural codes is damaging and does not help people to be who they are, particularly if they do not fit prescribed categories. The things I love about my husband have nothing to do with him being a man but the person he is, so those things could just as easily be found in a woman.

Sexuality cannot fit into a box.

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Surely attraction and love has more to do with the person than their gender? Things can change in life and you are attracted to people for such a vast variety of reasons, some of which we are not even aware of that surely ticking a box cannot sum up that experience. I am a Christian who was always taught that homosexuality was a sin. I now believe that there is nothing wrong with it, but that I believe God loves commitment, love and a serving heart in a relationship.

Even as I say this, I recognise how ridiculous it sounds. While I am a heterosexual, I have always found lesbian pornography more arousing than the other genres of pornography. But I have always felt I was heterosexual. As a teenager there was the odd doubt, mostly because I was one of Aroused gay dudes are making erotic love loner, oddball types at school and being weird was often seen as a symptom — I use the term symptom because being gay was seen effectively as an illness at my school — of being gay.

But I knew deep down I was heterosexual. With the statement that sexuality exists along a continuum rather than a zero or a six, heterosexual or homosexual, I do believe sexuality is a fluid thing.

While I have no interest in a relationship with a man, the thought of kissing or even giving oral sex to another male is one I have often found pleasurable. That the idea of homosexuality was simply wrong.

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Although I am mainly attracted to women, if I were single I would be open to exploring my sexuality in a way I never did when younger. So my Kinsey score of one could become a two. Certainly my fantasies are not always heterosexual. Although openness to sexuality depends very much on your social conditioning, religion and political views, in the absence of these factors, it would be interesting to see what instinct dictates.

Although I identify as bisexual, my tendency is towards the opposite sex. In saying that, I am open to the possibility of this changing over time and with Aroused gay dudes are making erotic love experiences. It was only when I was comfortably in a relationship with my current girlfriend that I had the time to reflect on my thoughts towards men. Having sexual gratification without constantly seeking out a new sexual partner gives you the space to reflect on your own sexuality.

I would hate to think that a part of me would need to be kept hidden, even if it appears irrelevant to my current situation. I agree with the statement that sexuality exists along a continuum as the rigidity of zero-to-six negates the nuance and changeability of sexuality.


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